"Becoming attractive to others is not very complicated. Love everyone. If you do not, then you are doomed. In essence, people who are non-communicative, sullen, withdrawn, and unresponsive to the simple courtesies of interaction with strangers are destined to a life of, at best, marginal functioning, and more likely an utter failure to accomplish anything more than feeding, sheltering, and clothing themselves. And this will be their miserable fate until the moment that they finally die, at which point few if any will notice or care . . . ever . . . Think about it!" So says Dr. Will Miller. absorb.