inspiration... I was inspired at last night's class (as I often am during my classes). We are working on career portfolios and this task is helping me see that, although I have done a few things worthy of admiration, I have not done nearly as much as I expect of myself. One section of these portfolios is dedicated to our 2-year and 5-year goals. Got me thinkin...

My first, personal, goal is to become more adept in the area of leadership. At this moment in time I'm not sure exactly how to go about doing that; truthfully, it sounds scary to this introvert, but absolutly worthy of pursuing anyway. I think a boost in self-confidence is the first step towards this goal. I often feel shy around people I don't know, i.e. at parties, etc., and have, in the past, relied on a certain state of drunkeness for the gumption to "mingle." But, moving towards a more professional life, I'd like to know how to do this in a sober state. I have incidently stumbled upon an article in the May, 2003 edition of Real Simple entitled "The 10 Big Rules of Small Talk" and have found it helpful as a starting place. According to Jennifer Tung, "...you don't have to be brilliant, just nice." Easy! Anyway, if ever in an awkward social situation, here are a few ice-breakers she suggests...

"How do you know the host?"
"Have you been to the movies lately?"
"Where did you get that lovely necklace?"
"What kind of work do you do?"
"What do you think of the band?"

Nothing too mind boggling, but never know when one of these will come in handy...