I had asked Lathen to define Love on Monday night at dinner. He responded something like .. Love is being able to be yourself and be comfortable. I think that is a big part of it, but I, as always, was looking for more. I proceeded to go into my "chemical love" spiel and he listened, he agreed. Well, it is apparent that he has been pondering the definition of love since that time because he came home last night with an obviously well thought out definition for me; it went something like this.....

"Love is not something that happens quickly. It is too complex. It requires respect, trust, interest, sexual attraction, admiration, acceptance, amongst many other of life's good things. Because of this, it takes time. Those feelings you have before these sentiments are proven is simply lust. It may grow to love, it may not, but you must have all of these things present, or you will be missing out on its true meaning."

Of course, this is not verbatim, but it is the jist of what he said to me and I love him for putting such time into answering my question. Do I agree? Absolutely. Do I believe in exceptions? Always...